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Why did I get married?

Don’t look back and ask why, look back and ask why not

A very valuable lesson to learn …

Interesting quote from the movie ‘Why did I get married?’
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship.

There is always another person (man or woman) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT. And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT.

But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.

Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don’t have. ‘Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it’s not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I’m crazy about her because she’s also understanding, intelligent, tender – so many things that my spouse is not.’

Somewhere along the way, you’ll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you’re looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let’s say your wife is melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: ‘I broke my arm yesterday, hahahaha . . …’

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That’s only 20% of what you don’t have.

Don’t throw away the 80% that you already have!

That’s not all. Add to your spouse’s 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you’ve accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don’t have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I’m not just talking about marriage.

I’m talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he’s missing? ‘They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they’ve got personal videos!’

I guarantee you’ll be miserable for the entire trip! Don’t live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class — because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!

heart broken

I take things seriously sometimes, so I have to learn giving up something that slicing my heart and make me sore. Could listen to my heart that cries in the dark alone. My soul is leaving me and this is so not me.

As of this morning, I woke up telling myself in the mirror, I’d have this feeling no more for a greater live and form a newer me. Bye bye evil soul, I am just too innocent to get to know you. Would I be an angel? I rather not. Who am I?

Just ferl, no one else.

found myself floating

I found myself floating for no reason these days. Something just bothering me lately.

Have you got anything in you , that there’s always a thing or an object you like but cannot get it which it doesn’t meant for you?

For example, a Channel dress. It’s pretty, it’s glamor and stylish but it only fits on someone else, and god damn it only limited to one piece, with all the money you have, you can’t buy! Seeing the woman wearing the dress in front of you and nothing you can do but to adore and envy.

A beauty queen / america idol on youtube / tv that in your heart, you are more qualified to be a beauty queen or sing better than her.

A pair of Gucci high heal that you love but w’d never thought to spend a penny to wear on it and walk around the streets of upper east Manhattan for a day, would you?

Someone that you like most and miss but you can’t tell him/her, and you have to act like normal as usual.

Leave me alone -_-

Something kept bothering me lately, leave me alone!

grrrrrrrrrrab-it

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Culture shock in Jakarta

Short notice meeting, lucky I always have my passport with me. Traveling from KUL>JKT>KUL in 24 hrs, is damn tiring! Not to forget the traffic in Jakarta, KL is too little to compare.

I did enjoy much in the Hotel for my own home spa since the masseurs were fully booked till 12am! damn….

No shopping and nothing in such a short period of time! Fine…watch tv and access the considered expensive broadband in room.

The breakfast buffet was awesome. yummy.

The cosmopolitan city with modern shopping malls and dressy working ladies impressed me much.

I was in dilemma, whether ornot to call my uncle, and I had no idea where he is in Jakarta. So I did not make it. I’d like to meet him if I have enough time!

How does an empty can sounds like?

noisy and loud, yes?

This reflect to people who make so much noise, talkie talkie with no actual action.

So what do you with this empty can? Keep it or throw it? I suggest you put into the recycle bin, at least that is the least you can do.

Don’t cross the line, do your own job

I remembered watching Hotel Babylon, there was a part talking about the driver of Mr.Mathew, who cross the line of hotel personnel to serve him. He (forgot his name) was warn by Tony Casemore at the lobby entrance, to ask the driver not to do so, as there are personnel here to serve the guest, and the tips are not for him.

I pretty much like the whole series, they significantly tell you the realistic of working life.

I just want to address my anger somehow. Yes I am not in good mood today as the fact that someone is crossing the line again. Yes I mean A-G-A-I-N.

Why can’t these people do their job correctly before crossing the line and messed up after all and leave the mess cleaning for people who has been working closely in the job? So, do they just come and go to gain credit? Do they just want to show the ability of stealing people’s effort and name it by it’s own?

This is all crap, just do your own job, make it correct & perfect!