Doing a lot of “Please select country” , “please select traveller sex”, ” Please select….”, “please select ….” and so on.
People are asked to select given options when they intend to do something. But in life, not much options are given for us to select.
For example,
Why can’t I select the family/dad/mum/brother/sisters I’m with.
I used to think about this when I was so mad about my family, well that was my problem, such a childish mind I had when I was young! I was asking myself how could I have such a brother always fight with me. How could I have a sister always scold me? Why my dad was so fierce and cool? Why my mum always nag? Why am I not the only daugther [as usual-la, when I did not get attention from parents]. Why was I born in this family that I have to help the business at my free time (yeah, helping dad business wasn’t my favourite thing to do at that time! Imagine that serving customer after school, making few thousands mini egg tarts manually every weekend for the restaurants order and go home late everyday). And It took most of my study life of doing so and till the year of ecomomy crisis, dad sold the business and we were back to normal life like everybody has. From then I miss those time when helping in the shop. At least, all the family members are busy under one roof cuz afther that time, mum went to NYC, sis work in KL, another sis went on with her degree, left me, dad and my brother at home. It was sad that everyone since then seldom communicate with each other.
Why can’t I select the gender I want to be?
Yeah I mean it. Being a male, I can do so many things alone. Like go backpack alone by not afraid of bringing trouble to myself. Having few gfs at one time **grins**. I don’t need to worry if I was driving home at late night. I don’t have to wear bra~ and suffer for at least a week once in a month, yeah I wish.
Why can’t I select the Nationality?
I may not be proud of being a Malaysian sometimes, opps due to some reasons and that’s why most my relatives migrated. I rarely support local made products except the food, in fact most of the stuffs I use are made in China…lol. Somehow, it’s still the place I have to survive for time being.
Why can’t I select my friend?
I wish that I could select the friend I will be with before I get hurt. But would I know that they will betray me? Would I know they will take advantage on me? Would I know they will just dig a hole and let me step in and laugh at me? No, If I have known it earlier… I wouldn’t have hurt feeling now, yeah and thing learnt when it happened.
Why can’t I select the boss and must the boss choose me?
Yeah, back at the time before year 2000, most employees select the companies they wanna go for as they have too many options. As for now, there are too many candidates for one position. So, you got to have more luck sometimes.
Why can’t I select this , why can’t I select that……. counting on… yeah, most of the time is not what we can choose nor there are options given.
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